Thanks in advanceif(typeof ez_ad_units != 'undefined'){ez_ad_units.push([[300,250],'mamapedia_com-box-3','ezslot_3',679,'0','0'])};__ez_fad_position('div-gpt-ad-mamapedia_com-box-3-0'); We havent been to her dr about this issue however I dont think this is the reason as she is quite regular (once a day) and its solid but not large and the poop in her underwear tends to be from a small streak to actual chunks of poop. No one was better than anyone. That became my challenge, but it also meant I started doing it intentionally. http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Poop-My-Pants-On-Purpose/901933 Spinster Regular I dont want to live on this earth anymore. He admitted that he frequently pooped in his shorts during gym class. ^ Not me. It was so embaraasing! uQuiz.com is a free online quiz making tool. And then go from there Talk to the pediatrician. Don't punish, teach. The only time I was tempted to intentionally wet myself was the one time that I accidentally had a full bowel movement in my pants at school. Paula Radcliffe at first of the 2005 London Marathon. This is the second three-day period in which he decided to quit using the potty. It was embarrassing but had become so accustom to my situation and the negative attention I was used to it. The group was run by a male teacher and this male nurse from another school. panties. The longer the poop is stuck there, the more water is removed and the harder it is to push the large, dry poop out. This book talks about instead of it being a disorder it's a smart gene. My tighty-formerly-whities were bulging and hemorrhaging spurts of poop. Hi James, I meant to say she knew by personal experience. She made me do my own washing, well before starting high school, claiming it was to give me independence. 4. Have you ever pooped your pants by accident or on purpose? At the time my 13-year-old brain though my explanation sounded good but when I think about it now it would have been completely implausible. Instead I pushed and, for the first time in Hi Anonymous,There were quite a few times, but the worst was probably during an excursion in my second year of high school. One of mine did it because his Dad would get so bent out of shape about it. High School Superintendent ARRESTED For Pooping On Rival School's Football Field On Daily. Hi jason. And yet, despite all logic that would explain otherwise, I pooped my pants. [4] Then another time, I pooped massively in my pull up while walking to my class. The more I got away with it the more in control I felt. been particularly apt on this day. Even if I had wanted I often wet myself a bit from waiting too long or being too embarrassed to ask. It was your way of dealing with your bodily needs while at school when you felt unable to use the toilets there. didnt withhold, as I still often did when I was away from home. There were even times people commented on how nice I smelt which was rather odd considering what was in my underwear. Once I decided the best way to deal with my situation was to keep it as secret as possible part of me began to like knowing I had gotten away with it. yay now you know how to poop! Try NOT to poop/pee your pants (Girls) Girls: take your seat and test how long you can hold your pee/poop! But I always managed to successfully hide them from being detected. By Supr94 , Thursday at 11:41 AM. I thought moving into my own place was going to help but it only made it worse for a while. Hi Anonymous,Cleaning up was my responsibility and that also applied to washing my underwear. From the age of 14 though I was deeply bothered by it. If all checks out, take a look at these solutions to try when your 4 year old poops in his pants and doesn't care one bit: 1. Instead I would have tried to hold it in, probably soiling myself at the BBQ later, whereas you decided to do it in your pants, just as you had done many times in the past.You said before that your poop didn't have too much smell, so hopefully nobody found out what you'd done. Neither of us cared about having soiled underwear even if we were like that the whole day. The only time I changed was if a teacher or someone said something but that hardly ever happened. She would often tell me that she could smell me and knew what I'd done and would sometimes check me with a pat on the behind, but that would be it till much later. When you say "she knew my person experience", do you mean that she also had soiling problems at some time? resolution soon. deserved the scolding I received. I felt that way too. bornkiller Spinster wrote: my underwear caked in my poo really brought home to me just what I had Now if an attempt to get to a restroom is made but not achieved, or enough forewarning is not given by your body, you would be ok to pee or poop your pants since you would be literally forced to do it against your own will. "JULIA!! I'll never forget the girl who pooped herself while running in remote Cambodia or the guy who had to find a plastic bag to go in on the side of the highway (guess that's better than pooping your pants). good thing that came out of it was that I was never tempted to do it again. or money to keep me entertained. Being lenient may make them believe that . impossible. Luckily a dinner lady changed me at lunchtime. In my case, I didn't get into the habit of deliberately soiling myself, but I did get into the habit of withholding my poo from the age of 3, which it took me years to get out of. If the toilet is any kind of power struggle, a strong-willed kid will do this. I think most school-aged children would not purposely soil themselves except in a circumstance such as you have detailed, that is to say, adding to an already existing accident in ones pants. Talking about it with others must have relieved some of the stress and probably helped you to stop. Happily, Julia got dressed. Your school experiences sound awful, particularly that day with the supply teacher in Year 6. It's VERY common at this age, and when this happens, they CAN'T control what comes out when. I imagine that was a difficult and embarrassing conversation. Created Mar 5, 2014 nsfw Adult content 3.5k Members 8 Online Fortunately, I could always entertain myself, a. nd Jody, your post and all its comments are a truly useful resource of thoughts on the subject and I hope you will all be able to look back at this poo dilemma as a "brief moment . Yes i pee my pants all the time - it is your own choice if you think it is okay or not 50 3 Amelia Crouse Author has 193 answers and 1.4M answer views 1 y Related Have you ever pooped or peed your pants? I did try to explain it to my parents but nothing I said seemed to change their minds. And I never liked knowing i gotten away with it because when i pooed my pants i knew i had never got away with it and my accident would get discovered soon. When it's backed up TOO much, the poop leaks out and it can be a messy incident. It was the same for a friend the same age as me who lived in the same street as me. We developed a sense of humor about our problem. I too had hard poos in my undies, I was never bothered by it and would play for hours until I was detected. Interesting.. How none of us noticed or smelled it is beyond me but it happened. If youve read my earlier post, you will know that in 2014 I decided to write a book for older children who soil, as the only books on the m As a boy, James Parkin often pooed himself until he was 11. couldnt hold it. The Fumble. )it might seem very disgusting that i would put my hands down my pants but it was perfectly normal to me. Not wanting to stop what I was doing. Lack of understanding from my mother.My mother thought I was doing it intentionally and took the out of site out of mind approach. It felt normal to me. But many kids beyond the age of toilet teaching (generally older than 4 years) who soil their underwear have a condition known as encopresis (en-kah-PREE-sis). 1:50. Then made some awful comments about me being too old and doing it on purpose, so I would have to sit and suffer in pooed pants all day. However, it might have just come down to the simple fact that I had reached the front steps to my house before succumbing to this temptation, and had I lived a little further away, I would have done the shameful deed. I was used to doing it, and good at keeping it secret, but as the load pushed into my underwear, I was surprised how big it was. khairete would have just done that in my pants as well and created an even more horrendous No, I would not poop my pants on purpose. I realized there was no getting out of it and the other people had probably also seen. It's worth noting that children pooping pants on purpose are due to a variety of reasons. It has not been easy to write about this, as it is I could never really explain myself and I understand why she took that approach. She told me she had the same problem when she was my age and did it just as much as me. We were on the way to another party, so I started getting worried she was going to work out it was me. For several reasons, I don't think she would have considered leaving me in dirty pants for the rest of the day.As well as it being unhealthy and unsanitary to leave me messy, she would not have wanted me stinking up the house and sitting at the dinner table or on the sofa with dirty pants. Did you take them off and poop in them on the ground, then put them back on? A baby does so because of lack of self control and because he/she can't help it, I can't see a correlation between babies/infants and adults. I do remember, however, the awful feeling when my mother looked in my pants and I knew that my latest accident was about to be discovered and that I was going to be told off again.I was also lucky that I stopped soiling at 11, so there were no problems in that area at secondary school. One thing you could control was where you excreted when you felt the need, either in the toilet or in your underwear. Underwear which has been both pooped and peed in is particularly horrendous, and, of course, your pants (trousers to Brits like me) would have been wet as well. Before you do the test you need to pee/poop at least a bit! and writes about various aspects of his childhood soiling problem. charlesandchase. I was 8 when this happened and it took place at the To which she had no answer and really didnt care what we were saying. Instead of excusing myself and going to the toilet I decided to risk it. Cheers Bean. One mother on Mumsnet whose I was also extremely shy so putting my hand up and asking to go to the toilet was far to embarrassing. This is also a little weird but sometimes when kids get praised for something they act out in stupid ways to test if u really love them..with out them doing well in a report cardkind of thing.I really don't know it doesn't sound like a huge medical.prob in your case but more of a testing behavior thing.those really do crop up for no reason. I was staying after school to work on something, and instead of going to the toilet, I just sat there holding it in, and pooped a full load right then and there in class. Yeah. I was still doing it when I moved out of home to share a house with some friends. Generate leads, increase sales and drive traffic to your blog or website. home of my maternal grandmother, the only grandparent I ever knew. Little Girl Poops in Her Lunch Box Causing Mom to Throw Up. Worth asking your doctor. The idea of peeing myself was the only bad decision I didnt make that day concerning my bodily functions. At 13 she stopped changing me, but had this embarrassing ritual whereby I had to wash my underpants in the bathroom sink whilst she watched. While I enjoyed playing with other children, I was also happy playing by myself, which I often did when I had messy pants.I've never considered that my imagination was linked to my encopresis, but who knows, you might be on to something! Yes. Thank you for your kindness James. And if you're going to yell at her, of COURSE she's going to deny/pretend. Was I able to make some moral distinction between an accident and a sin? Other kids would notice and grass to the teacher when Id pooed my pants, but I dont remember being bullied for it. Have something with you that can cover up the wet patch on your pants. The medication my mother gave me and washing my own underwear made that a lot easier. they contained my accidents and held them in place, so I didn't have poop falling out of my pants! I wonder if maybe she did it once as an accident then felt your reaction and continued to do it..is she testing and pushing limits in other ways??? Im ashamed to say that I had this problem from age 6 to 19 and still now occasionally have accidents in my pants I came across your blog because my 14 year old nephew has the same issue. How do you break your child's pacifier habit? 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